just a clarification.
in fact,
i don't have to do this.
i just want you to know,
we've never intended to exclude you.
you chose to exclude yourself from our group.

i sorta empathised with you
and tried to find reasons to justify your actions
even if others didn't.
but till that day.
things changed.

it was so disappointing to realise that trust is absent in this friendship.
and it's even more upsetting that things ended up like this.

sometimes,
you've just got to think about your character traits.
maybe no one told you this.
even though i hate to say this,
i just hope that it makes you realise
what makes it hard for others to get along with you.
you're self-centred.
your actions doesn't only affect you,
others get implicated too.
and when things don't go the way you expected it too,
you have just gotta realise,
sometimes it's your actions that led to the respective consequences.
it's not about blaming here or not forgiving you for what you've done.
it's more like learning from it and not running away from it.
it is about accepting the fact that it happened,
sharing with us your point of view about it,
and that we'll be supportive friends to help you through this.

just so you know,
we don't gain anything from hearing your side of the story.
we could just judge you based on what we've heard so far
and have an unfavourable impression of you
and this would definitely affect the friendship.
it is only because we wanted to keep this friendship together that we valued your opinion.

i cared about you
and i hate it that things turned out like this.
but your decision just made me realise
how you valued this friendship.
and that's the turning point.

that i realised maybe we don't know you as much as we thought we did.